Looking for a place to meet people and make friends?
If you are 18 or older, this may be an opportunity for you!
People with developmental disabilities and autism often struggle to establish meaningful friendships, romance, and companionship with their peers. When a child comes home from their school or day program, that is often it. They watch TV alone, they eat alone, they go to bed alone. They are there with their family, or group house-mates, with little in common they have no one to chat with on the phone, and no one with whom they can call their BFF.
The BFF Project provides an opportunity to increase the social pool for people with autism and developmental disabilities in a relaxed, person-centered and non-stressful manner. There is no pressure to participate until someone is ready and that may be the second or third time they participate. Some folks that have attended are quiet and observant during their first meeting, then the second or third time they come, they blossom into social butterflies! This event is all about their likes! They can wear what they choose, they are able to talk about planes, trains, and Disney all night if that is what they like to with others who enjoy that too! Tools and preparation are used to help the participants identify like-minded friends in a comfortable, no-pressure manner.
Participants are encouraged to bring items of interest that they may share with others in attendance. This helps increase their comfort, the interaction and generates the interest of other participants.
Parents and supporters come but do not actively participate; we recruit volunteers to support participants and to facilitate interaction. If your participant is only able to be at ease with you at their side, we welcome you to join the table as well! Otherwise, supporters must remain on the property during the event, unless, the individual transports themselves. Supporters must also meet us at the door at 8:15 pm.
When? First Thursday of the Month at 6:45-8:15pm
Where? Parents Helping Parents offices, The Sobrato Center for Nonprofits, 1400 Parkmoor Av. Ste 100, San Jose CA 95126
Cost? Zero for participants
Registration? Yes, it is required that participants register each time they attend. See the PHP calendar to sign up.